The #TakeOver is Real

Our International Day of the Girl celebration is right around the corner. On October 7, join us for #ChicagoGirlsTakeOver! We will be honoring an elite group of people who are working hard to create change in their communities. All funds raised through our fundraiser will be used to support girls at our program sites in Chicago, Indiana, Texas, and at Duke University.

And let’s not forget who this night is all about…the girls! Polished Pebbles truly would be nothing without the girls and young women who attend our programming. At our VIP Reception, you will have the opportunity to network with our pebbles and learn how Polished Pebbles has impacted their academics, career aspirations, and daily lives!

We truly have a community supporting us, and we hope you will join us as we celebrate girls in Chicago and around the world!

RSVP: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/chicagogirlstakeover-celebrate-international-day-of-the-girl-with-polished-pebbles-tickets-36765244837

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Happy Birthday, Kelly Fair!

The Founder and Executive Director of Polished Pebbles, Kelly Fair, celebrated her birthday this week! This past year has been one of growth and excitement for both her and our mentoring initiative. We look forward to the many opportunities ahead of us!

Want to show Ms. Kelly Fair some birthday love? Consider joining us on October 7 as we celebrate #InternationalDayoftheGirl at our Chicago Girls Take Over Reception.

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Meet Our Host Committee Co-Chairs and Honorary Chair

On October 7, Polished Pebbles is celebrating International Day of the Girl. Our Chicago Girls Take Over Reception will raise funds to support our girls in the Polished Pebbles programming. We will be honoring a special group of people from entrepreneurs to political officials. We hope you join us because when Pebbles Take Over we stand with the global community to support girls’ progress in Chicago, and everywhere!

We are so thankful for the help of our Host Committee Co-Chairs and Honorary Chair. With their support, our Chicago Girls Take Over Reception will be a success! Here’s your chance to meet them.

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Honorary Chair…Mrs. Deborah Farmer. Deborah Olivia Farmer is President of Brown Farmer Media Group, a full-service, Chicago-based communications firm established in 2014. Prior to forming her company, Mrs. Farmer in 2006 was named Director of Station Relations at NBC5-TV Chicago, an NBC Universal owned and operated broadcast station. Serving as the link between the station and the community, she provided media exposure for hundreds of underserved non-profit organizations across the city of Chicago and surrounding suburbs. In addition, she launched NBC5’s first ever Women’s History Month clothing drive benefiting WRAP, Clara’s House and The Primo Center for Women and Children, which became a model for drives across all the station groups.

Meet one of our Host Committee Co-Chairs…Ms. Dawn Milhouse. Ms. Milhouse is the Co-Founder and Executive Director of Milhouse Charities. Milhouse Charities supports scientific and educational organization, especially to advance academic opportunities for minorities and other underrepresented youth. With her experience in Hospitality, Management, and PR and Marketing we are sure to have #ChicagoGirlsTakeOver be a success. We are so excited to have this philanthropist’s knowledge of over 20 years of community stewardship and non-profit leadership on our side.

We want you to meet one of our Host Committee Co-Chairs…Mr. Shayne Evans!
Shayne Evans is the Founder and Managing Partner of The Academy Group. Before starting The Academy Group, Mr. Evans served as the Superintendent of University of Chicago Charter School.

 

Meet Our Host Committee

On October 7, we are celebrating International Day of the Girl with our Chicago Girls Take Over Fundraiser.

Polished Pebbles Girls Mentoring Program is a Chicago based initiative striving to support girls in our communities with mentoring sites in Chicago, Indiana, Texas, and a college edition at Duke University. Since 2009, Polished Pebbles has helped over 2,000 girls aged 7-17 yrs. old to become effective communicators at home, school, and the future workplace.

The funds raised through this event will help girls in our communities to become leaders and future changemakers. The event will honor an elite group of honorees including entrepreneurs and political leaders, who all make a difference in their communities.

When #PebblesTakeOver we stand with the global community to support girls’ in Chicago, and everywhere!

We hope you will join us!

We could not be more thankful for our Host Committee! They are helping us bring our best for Chicago Girls Take Over. Meet them below!

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We’re Headed Back to School

September is upon us, which means the first day of school is right around the corner. Although Polished Pebbles won’t be starting up until October, we know that students and parents have some nerves about getting back to those classrooms. We have some tips for you to make the transition into the school year as smooth as possible:

  • Set up a daily schedule to help maintain routines
  • Keep set bedtimes to make those morning wakings easier
  • Pack healthy, filling lunches to keep your kids sharp in class
  • Have quiet time in the evening to help your kids with homework
  • Help your kids organize by keeping a set place for school supplies and backpacks
  • Plan fun activities for the weekend to keep your child excited during the weekdays
  • Talk about after-school programs and activities with your kids
  • Consider a mentoring program to help your kids form positive relationships and build skills
  • Talk to your kids not just about school and homework, but also about their relationships and hardships
  • Stay encouraging and supportive!

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Does Seattle Need Polished Pebbles?

The city of Seattle, Washington has decided to tackle the achievement gap between black boys and white boys in education. They have funded a pilot program, Our Best, to work with boys between the ages of 14 and and 24 years of age. According to an article in Seattle Magazine:

In 2015, 56 percent of white Seattle Public Schools graduates ended up going to a four-year college; just 30 percent of black students did the same. This achievement gap has lifelong ramifications; nearly 70 percent of young black men who drop out of school will end up in prison, and one in three black boys will be incarcerated in their lifetime.

While we congratulate the efforts Seattle is putting forth to address this achievement gap, it leaves us (and people in Seattle) wondering: what about black girls?

Polished Pebbles Girls Mentoring Program was founded by Kelly Fair because she recognized that young girls of color need just as much support as boys in education. The achievement gap and the obstacles students of color face is not limited to boys. While Seattle has stated that if Our Best is successful they will later apply the program to girls, it still shows that the needs of girls’ is being seconded.

“The intent is that if you fix a demographic that is clearly doing statistically the poorest, you are in fact fixing the institutional problems for the other demographics as well,” says City Council member Bruce Harrell, an Our Best proponent. “In fixing a lot of the institutional practices that work to the detriment of young black males, I think young black females and even others will reap the benefits.”

Surratt adds, “Unfortunately, across almost every metric that you can imagine, every social, economic and health indicator, young black men are suffering the most, and so we wanted to tackle this part of the community first.”

Crenshaw, who criticized Obama’s My Brother’s Keeper program for excluding girls in a New York Times op-ed piece, is less convinced, calling that theory “trickle-down social justice” that “doesn’t work any better than Reaganomics did.”

All this has us wondering, does Seattle need a school-based program specifically for girls similar to Polished Pebbles? What are your thoughts on how to address the achievement gap for both boys and girls of color?

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“Woke” at All Ages: Stand Up to Injustice

As a task force member, I represented Polished Pebbles Girls Mentoring Program at this week’s US Congressional Caucus on Black Women & Girls (CCBWG) 2nd Annual Chicago Symposium. This event is chaired by US Congresswoman Robin Kelly. This year’s symposium’s theme was “Woke” at All Ages: Inspiring Black Women Advocates Across Generations. The term “woke” is frequently used in the media and today’s culture to describe those who are socially aware of society’s challenges and shortcomings. And, “woke” can also signify someone who is actively engaged in advocacy work and solutions to attempt to address some of these issues.

20915607_10214664323902085_6359147576001553899_nThe seminar sought to explore the importance of recognizing the enormous power wielded by Black women of all ages and stages, and identify ways to spur intergenerational dialogue and collaboration to make our advocacy efforts most effective for all Black women.

One of the things I’ve always been adamant about while building the Polished Pebbles organization over the years is that EVERYONE has a critically important role in developing more positive outcomes for our young people. This includes men, people of various ethnic and racial backgrounds, and women of all different ages. Mentors for our girls can be as young as their peers, or range to include some of our communities’ most mature elders. I think it’s critically important for our girls to learn from a wide variety of “voices” of wisdom from diverse mentors. And, it’s equally important for these wise and “woke” mentors to have the platforms to share their wisdom, and continue to grow as individuals right alongside our girls.

Society and life has no shortage of it’s own profound issues and crises, like the fatally violent white nationalist rally in Charlottesville, VA. So, there can’t be a shortage of “woke” women and girls across various generations and age levels who are ready to continue to stand up for justice, and humanity.

Double Dutch and Hip Hop

Do you know the history of double dutch? The simple rope and sneaker sport actually has a few roots in hip-hop.

Wanting to find a sport that girls could excel in, two police officers rounded together double dutchers on the streets of Harlem to create a formalized sport. They implemented rules, points, and teams to coordinate competitions. Their goal was the Olympics.

And boy did the sport grow! It was a national tour that swept through schools and got children jumping on their feet. And then it took a different turn. The rhythm of double dutch matched the beats of the growing hip-hop culture. That is when double dutch teams started performing on the dance floors at hip-hop venues. They were the attraction before breakdancers took the floor. Can you imagine!?

However, once hip-hop became more popular in the mainstream, double dutch was no longer included in the image. It floated away.

But that doesn’t mean double dutch is gone! While we don’t see many girls jumping rope on sidewalks anymore, there are still women pushing the sport forward. In fact there are whole campaigns dedicated to getting girls to jump rope. Just last week in New York City the Double Dutch Summer Classic was held with over 50 teams from around the United States.

Want to have some fun this weekend? Grab a jump rope and your daughter or son and head outside! It will give you time to prepare for the next time Polished Pebbles brings Double Dutch to our Second Saturday event!

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We Want More Black Sisterhood

In a previous post, we discussed the importance of black sisterhood. You can view that post here: Photographing Sisterhood. In a media centered society that puts drama over friendship, we are seriously lacking black female friends on the big screens. Which means, many of our young girls are not seeing examples of black female friendship.

And what some people are missing, is that this is what we want to see in movies and on television. We want to not only see diversity, but we want to see people of color in lead roles and positive roles. We want to see examples of black sisterhood and brotherhood. This proved true with the movie “Girls Trip”.

In it’s opening weekend, “Girls Trip” brought in $30 million. In a Huffpost article, it states:

What makes “Girls Trip” so great is that it shows black women as they are: Unapologetic, carefree, flawed and human. Through its comedic approach, the film gives space for these women to act reckless, reckon with their wrongdoing and re-examine their actions in a way that is raw, real and rarely represented on the big screen.

–Lilly Workneh,‘Girls Trip’ Matters Because Seeing Black Sisterhood Celebrated On Screen Is Important

Here’s to hoping we see more movies like “Girls Trip” and more TV shows like “Insecure”. Media where black women are celebrated and friendship is modeled.

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Let’s Talk Hair…And The Power It Holds

We want to talk about hair…more specifically, the texture and style of black hair. You may have noticed in the news how some black girls are being reprimanded at their schools for wearing traditionally black hair styles. If you haven’t, then this NPR article gives a wonderful overview.

In recent years, black girls have been sent home for wearing dreadshead wraps and even wearing their hair naturally.

In schools across the country, black student suspension rates are higher than their peers’. In charter schools, kindergarten through eighth grade, those rates are even higher.

–Kayla Lattimore,When Black Hair Violates The Dress Code

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We don’t believe that a girl’s hair style should interfere with her education. What is it about black hair that some schools’ dresscodes identify them as “distracting”?

Listen to Cheyenne Cochrane as she talks about the role hair texture has played in history and society in her Ted Talk: A Celebration of Natural Hair.